tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2381513388426509126.post6773978207727943887..comments2023-05-18T10:05:53.459-05:00Comments on attempting to love life without her: As far as I know...Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07386710835021940223noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2381513388426509126.post-81101251738530324202009-12-28T04:37:43.706-06:002009-12-28T04:37:43.706-06:00I'm sorry no one mentioned Ella except Jay. I ...I'm sorry no one mentioned Ella except Jay. I don't know anyone who has lost a child who doesn't want that but it's like people are afraid to talk about them. Don't people still talk about other family members who have passed?Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2381513388426509126.post-15752446723734081342009-12-26T23:29:27.960-06:002009-12-26T23:29:27.960-06:00I wish I could hug you! I am so sorry. I get it, m...I wish I could hug you! I am so sorry. I get it, my mom doesn't bring Jenna up much at all. She is so afraid of hurting me more than I already am. I have even told her point blank that i WANT her to talk about Jenna and explained all the reasons that you have mentioned. Some people just can't or won't. I am so soo sorry no one besides your son mentioned her. That is extra sweet that he remembers her like this though, what a wonderful loving brother. This grief is confusing and frustrating for everyone. Praying for your peace and strength. Sending you lots of love!<br /><br />XOXOFranchescahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08362049658761399255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2381513388426509126.post-23184674426460204452009-12-26T23:07:32.925-06:002009-12-26T23:07:32.925-06:00God bless your family and Ella in heaven. I am ke...God bless your family and Ella in heaven. I am keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers.Sherriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16110420412281024292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2381513388426509126.post-51889996725243558712009-12-26T21:35:23.978-06:002009-12-26T21:35:23.978-06:00Tell your family that you want them to bring Ella ...Tell your family that you want them to bring Ella up in conversation. Maybe they need to hear it from you to know that it's ok. I'm sure they don't want to upset you. But, I know what you mean about feeling like no one except for you remembers her. Just know that you are right in believing you will meet her again one day!daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16130275608271804999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2381513388426509126.post-67250663420209479322009-12-26T19:33:15.398-06:002009-12-26T19:33:15.398-06:00We were on strike this Christmas- stayed home in o...We were on strike this Christmas- stayed home in our pjs and went to dinner by ourselves in the evening. I just couldn't tolerate a repeat of Thanksgiving. It doesn't matter how many times I ask for people to say her name, they don't. It is so hurtful. I am so sorry people didn't speak Ella's name yesterday. I thought about her. I thought about all of the sweet babies Ive met here and pictured them playing with Ella. Hugs, Jen!Breehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03894396436704042272noreply@blogger.com